Photo Shoots for Dommes and all kinksters in London

Photo Shoots for Dommes and all kinksters in London

London is my most favourite place in the world and even though I am based in Paris, I try to visit London, the capital of kink and creativity, at leasts once every 3 months. If you’d like more information about my photo shoots for the fetish, BDSM and Femdom community in London read on or Contact Me for rates and booking details.

Photoshoots on location: Fetish clothing outdoors – somewhere scenic or in public is always a great hit, most of my clients possess a certain amount of exhibitionism and if you don’t, but still love the aesthetic of outdoors shoots, we can be discreet and I’m happy to wait for the perfect shot without comprising anyone’s ethics.

Otherwise, I travel with portable lights that I can set up anywhere; in your play space or the interior of your choice. Hotels are popular and I can recommend one or two other locations for hire.

I don’t just photograph professional dommes! I love all kinds of portraiture and photography – fetish and kink is my favourite so if you are a fetishist of any persuasion that would love to own beautiful photos of yourself – rubberists, sissies and cross dressers, burlesque performers, male doms, kinky couples –  I would love to hear from you too. We can shoot for your fetish dating profiles or create a bunch of content for your Instagram and Twitter updates or we can create a personal folio of imagery purely for your own pleasure.

I can also recommend Hair and Makeup by Miss Kim Rub as an extra special addition to the shoot. We have worked on a number of shoots together and she always adds sparkle and creativity to the day. You can read her blog post about us here

During my last trip I had the pleasure to shoot with Mistress Alexandra Wildfire and also Mistress Kiana – both entirely different styles and locations and both with stunning results as you can see in these mini-galleries.


Mistress Wildfire


Mistress Kiana

I’d love to photograph YOU

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BDSM and Fetish Dating with Fetish.com

BDSM and Fetish Dating with Fetish.com

Online dating for the BDSM community has a new home and it’s on prime real estate at Fetish.com. When the guys over there contacted me wanting to featuring me in an article called Our Top Erotic Art & Alternative Businesses in the UK  I was  flattered and also a little awestruck by their domain name; what they’ve built there makes perfect use of it though, as you will not only find a massive amount of information for fetishists and BDSM purveyors – newcomers and experts alike – but also an amazing resource for people hoping to find their kinky soulmate via an online dating channel.  (more…)

Erotic and straight up kinky gift ideas!

Erotic and straight up kinky gift ideas!

I’ve been meaning to write a post about kinky gift ideas for years, and since Christmas is fast approaching, I thought I’d take the opportunity to suggest some quality erotic items produced by my very dear friends and clients. Some are great ideas for last-minute purchases as they do not necessarily involve a physical product.

Erotic and Fetish Art

Michael Manning creates some of the kinkiest, bizarre erotic art on the planet! I myself am so proud to have provided Michael with some inspiration for his art with my Puss in Boots persona that I used to play around with when I was fetish clubbing regularly a few years ago. That is another post entirely but here are two of the illustrations: That’s me, the kitty cat 😉

pony play fetish illustration by Michael Manning

Puss in Boots by Michael Manning fetish artist

I can’t think of a more perfect gift than an original artwork and you can commission Michael to create one in your loved ones likeness. There are also many other soecial pieces for sale on his website. Michael’s cool-as-fuck Spider Garden and Tranceptor graphic novels and Inamorata are also available to purchase too. His website is: www.thespidergarden.net and for a virtual gift why not sign up your loved one for a monthly fix of fetish art on his Patreon

Femdom Art

If you’re a “true” slave you should have, by now, commisioned the great Sardax to call into existence your Mistress’s favourite femdom fantasy in art form.

Likewise, a copy of Sardax’s Venus in Furs should occupy a space on any dominant woman or slave’s bookshelf.

BDSM B&B Getaway in London

London’s Hoxton Dungeon Suite, owned by the magnificent Madame Caramel, is a kinky haven set in the grooviest part of east London. Go with your partner, mistress, lover. Don’t just stay one night as it is simply not enough to truly experience all this pervert’s paradise has to offer.

Erotic, Fetish and BDSM Bookstore

If you want to view a collection of some of the best kinky books, magazines and DVDs ever published, then KFS MEDIA is where you should go! Tim Woodward, founder of the famous Skin Two magazine personally curates and manages KFS Media himself. I highly recommend a look at the Troupe of Slaves book – if you like your BDSM with a healthy dose of humour this book is a real page-turner.

Femdom, Fetish and BDSM and VANILLA Photoshoots

Purchase a photoshoot with me, Miss May, for your Mistress or your lover and I will send you a personalised gift certificate that you can send to their inbox on Christmas day, Valentine’s day, their b’day etc. 

However, I don’t only offer photoshoots for Mistresses – everyone is welcome and should experience at least one in their life, a professional photoshoot. I love photographing women and women with their loved ones, children and grandchildren.

The photos are printed on beautiful fine art paper and are presented in a beautiful handmade leather or leatherette folio which becomes an heirloom for future generations to enjoy and treasure.

If you would like to hear more about my mainstream portraits service, please do not hesitate to contact me and if you would like to see some of my photography of my prodomme clients you can visit this gallery

Blogging Ideas for the Femdom Community

Blogging Ideas for the Femdom Community

All websites across the www are, in general, seeking to grow and engage their online audience. The Femdom community is no exception.

Blogging is a great strategy to boost your SEO especially if Google is dismissing your website as sedentary. Not only does it excite the ‘spiders’ but the new blog post will become part of your indexable content. Creating content with authoritative, keyword-rich text is how you will stand out from your competition and position yourself as an authority on your speciality niches.

Blogging is also a great way to engage and build a relationship between yourself and potential clients; sharing your knowledge and experience should help instil in them the confidence needed to reach out and contact you.

How to blog and what to blog about, is a common conversation between me and my Femdom SEO clients, especially when writing is not their natural calling. Here is a blogging method that can easily be applied to the Femdom, Fetish and BDSM niche. Let’s explore the concept further…

“Something OLD, Something NEW, Something BORROWED, something BLUE”

OLD
What are some topics that would fall under this title:

  • A History of BDSM – so vast and varied!
  • Photos from your first Femdom photoshoot – show us a now and then, how have you evolved?
  • Your own history in the BDSM and Fetish scene, what brought you to the BDSM and Femdom world?
  • Who were the movers and shakers when you were introduced to professional domination
  • How has ProDomming changed in the last 20/30/40 years?
  • How has the internet made a difference in professional domination?
  • Remember when there was a busy fetish nightlife in London? Documenting those clubs and venues, the outfits you wore and the friends you made will serve as valuable insight for future generations.

NEW

  • Recent experiences of session stories
  • What’s new in your Playspace?
  • Recent photoshoots
  • Upcoming travels
  • Upcoming events
  • Testimonials.  Ask your clients to create reviews that you can share is possibly the easiest way to create original content. (you could dedicate a blog category for Testimonials only and link to them from your navigation – WordPress users only)

BORROWED

  • Feature someone or something else in your posts.
  • Talk about other people – who do you admire or who inspires you, what do you like about their work? Could be another ProDomme, or an actress, celebrities, designers, authors, musicians – not necessarily in a BDSM context but better if they are! It’s surprising how often BDSM makes an appearance in mainstream culture.
  • Or, perhaps a review of your favourite piece of equipment, with a little promo for the company who made it.

BLUE

  • Something personal: erotic writing, poetry, art you’ve created.
  • A dream or fantasy you wish to fulfil.
  • Past regrets, future hopes.

More importantly, and I touched on this earlier, blog posts are your chance to wax lyrical on all of your favourite types of play and interests, so if you have already posted a list of the types of scenes that you do indulge in, then you already have a very good list of blog posts! It’s a perfect opportunity to flex your muscle in your chosen speciality.

FINALLY 

Set yourself a 12 – week challenge to write 1 new post per week. Rotate through the ideas above and of course add your own – express your ideas and opinions, throw in some self-promotion and insight to who you are both as a professional and as a person. ALWAYS include photos and always remember to tweet your new post ( and don’t be scared to retweet yourself in case people have missed the tweet the first time around)

People doing it well already:

Lady Bellatrix

Miss Katherine Kendal

Mistress Evilyne

Personal Branding and Photography Workshops, London

Personal Branding and Photography Workshops, London

Who needs a Personal Brand? You do.

How do you present yourself to the world and are people taking notice?

Does your website and online persona really reflect YOUR unique personality and values, or something else?

I have teamed up with Kim Rub to create an incredibly useful workshop for ladies who are new to the professional domination industry, that are in need of some guidance. It’s also for anyone who simply wishes to update their photos or give their image a shake-up, or to simply make a fresh start in 2017.

There are limited places, I think around 8 spots in total. However, if it’s a success we hope to repeat the format at least every three months. For further information you can download the brochure as a PDF or flick through the online version below.

Make sure to contact either Kim or me (My Contact Page) ASAP, to secure your spot.

Book a place for Sunday here: https://www.fatsoma.com/photo-workshop/z1kye3ya/photography-personal-branding-workshop

Book a place for Monday here: https://www.fatsoma.com/photo-workshop/8vyo4ua9/photography-personal-branding-workshop

Thank you to all the amazing women I have been privileged to photograph this year. Big Love and a very prosperous 2017 to you all.

Model’s Photo Credits, in order of appearance:
Domina Sophia Larou
Miss Kim Rub
Goddess Anastaxia
Mistress Evilyne
ImpLuna
Miss Olympia
Siren
Miss Velour
Domina M
Lady Bellatrix